it does not bother me, so why should it bother you?

I am single. Always have been. Something that some people think is weird and which i don't really care about.
whenever someone ask me if i have a boyfriend and i say no, the reaction is always disbelief or they would ask, "why?".

well, why not? i am happy with my current status. true, no one  texts/call me everyday but i hardly text or call  so it does not really bother me. it is also true that being out of boyfriend and with most of my friends having one means i almost always have to go alone but being an introvert, i welcome the solitude. and yes, it is also true that no one sends me gifts for christmas, valentines, birthday or any other occasion for that matter and no one gives me flowers or say anything sweet to me. it does not bother me in the least because first of all, receiving gifts makes me uncomfortable. it makes me feel like i owe someone something. as for the flowers, i am allergic to it so even if someone does give me something i will have to refuse to accept it.

being single is fun. i love the freedom it affords me. i find it comforting that i don't have to report everything to anyone and i don't have to ask permission from someone whenever i want to do something. i mean, asking permission from parents is hard enough why would i want to add a boyfriend to the list?

another thing, without a boyfriend i am not required to be sweet to anyone or take care of anyone. i mean, come on! i can hardly take care of myself and i don't think there is anyone in this world who would describe me as sweet.

being single does not bother me at all so, it should not bother other people right?

you might wonder why i am posting this since i am not bothered by it. well, seeing that in a few days time it will be valentine's day again, people will be bothering me again with all these questions and stares. so i am planning to just direct anyone who ask me to this blog. they would get their answers and i would get my site traffic, hitting two birds with one stone. great!