man, i don't like arguing with women either.

arguing with a woman is pointless. this is a fact.

don't get me wrong, i am not a man nor do i pretend to be a man. i am a woman but even so, i find arguing with my kind really pointless.

truth is, i hate arguing with anyone. i hate raising my voice just to make myself heard. i hate explaining myself to someone who has already decided that i am wrong and they are right. i hate arguing with people who refuse to listen to what others are saying. i hate people who screams at me and i hate screaming back at them. most of all, women are naggers by nature and when we get angry we have a tendency to nag even more. our mouths could run on the whole day if left to alone. which is actually the best way to deal with the situation. ignore her and leave her alone and she'll eventually get tired. at least that's how i usually deal with them.

that's why i always believe it is best to be with men than women. men are more upfront unlike women who prefers to back bite you than say things to your face. men are also quick to settle scores and get over it while women prefers to scream at each other every chance they get--- which can be really boring and exhausting.

i am not saying though that you'd just go ahead and punch women in the face when they get you angry---although that is probably what i will do. if you're a man, i would suggest you ignore her instead of hurting her because that will only get you in trouble. however, if you are a woman like me... go ahead and punch that mouth. remember newton's first law of motion? sometimes you need to be that outside force.

but here's something for women who can't just stop nagging and letting their mouths run a mile ahead of them: sometimes, you are the reason why people become violent.

here's the thing: take a deep breathe, calm down, think, and ask yourself--- do you really have to scream? do you really have to unearth everything that happened in the past? would your screaming make things better? would nagging your partner or anyone for that matter make him/them a better person?

and if you are a person who wants to argue with a woman---don't. you'll lose. you'll get tired and you'll be wasting your time. they will not listen to you anyway so keep your argument to yourself. or better yet, write a blog they just might read it.




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