Dementors Among Us

It may or may not have  all started in this little status message I posted in FB. A little something that may have brought the ire of some people who thought the post is about them. Oh well, who's to say right? If it hits you then, I don't care.

"sometimes i wonder how some people can have so much negative vibes and still survive. with that much negative energy and a really bleak outlook in life, it's a wonder they haven't killed themselves yet.
it wouldn't hurt to try and see the good things in life. Not everything happening in this world is negative. sometimes you just have to stop looking for negativity and more on positive things.
and by the way, you don't have the right to spread your negativity to others. keep it to yourself. we're already stressed as it is."

I am not fond of pessimistic people. They sometimes define themselves as "realist" but they are more of a "fatalist"-- always looking for something negative about something even when there is nothing negative about it. They like to predict a future full of doom and despair. Like everything that happens around them will eventually lead to some kind of a disaster or something. They are people who, when others are enjoying they still find something to complain about. They can't seem to see the positive things around them. For them, the world is all gloom and doom. They're like predecessors of the EMOs only much worse.

You know why I don't like them? Here:

1.they're like dementors. They very presence drain all the happiness out of people. They spread despair and fear. When you are with someone who never seem to see anything positive about anything, you will feel it. you feel the stress, the despair, the frustration. You feel so tired even wheny you are not actually doing anything with them.It's just their way of life.

2. They are like termites. They weaken the people around them. The eat every single drop of positive energy within you until your life is as bleak as theirs.

3. They demoralize the group. Let's just say that if we are at war and we're with a dementoid (since he/she is not a real dementor), he'll be the first person I'll shoot. it is important for a group to have a high morale and if you have a dementor in a group, what can you expect?

 C'mon people! Just because you are bitter with your life doesn't mean we all are. Just because you can't find hope doesn't mean we've all lost hope. You can't drag the rest of the world with you. I have said it once before and I will say it again, negative energy is like body odor. keep it to yourself because nobody wants to smell it.

Let's all try to have a positive outlook in life. Life is not always up and sometimes we do feel like there is no more hope for us but that doesn't give us any right to spread our hopelessness to others. When you feel down and you have to cry, then cry. We all have low moments in our lives but we have to give ourselves a chance to see the light. We can't just focus on negative things. There is always something positive about something. Sometimes we just need a change of perspective.